It has now been my constant habit to stay away from someone who can’t fight for themselves.

I don’t believe that you can’t fight for yourself because the person in front of you is someone you really love or respect or care for their feeling.

I strongly believe that you are someone who can’t fight with that person because that person pays your bill and this is highly true. 

I have come across stories of many Indian women, especially the ones who just can’t fight for themselves. Trust me, I was one of them, but I didn’t want to live like that. 

I remember coming across one of my own family member who clearly told me that ‘Tanisha, I wanna stay back with him (even after insults and disrespect) is because things are easier with him. I have a lavish lifestyle with him and without him, I will have to wash dishes at peoples house which I do not want to.’

And I so hated this.

I realise that I was convincing a wrong person. I strongly believe that we women are wrongly functioning in many aspects of life. No one is asking to risk leaving the feminine energy of taking care of the home and making it a better place, but change, transform and upgrade. 

1. Please pay your own bills.
2. Please work rather than using the man’s money.
3. Eat on time so that you stay sensible and strong, and not just a victim.
4. Prefer protein over juice and detox drink.
5. Learn just not art and craft, but play sports. You don’t want a man to hold your hand lightly, whose grip you can’t even escape.
6. Don’t just watching cooking videos, but also watch videos on investment and money management and law.

To all the women I have spoken to, and who have refused to stand for themselves: You all aren’t saving your family. You are simply dependent because you aren’t capable enough to pay your own bill. (Harsh truth) 

I regret to even experience the incidents where it’s a routine for husband to beat and abuse his wife. And she considers this as what she deserves.

I agree, there are a lot of good men around, but many are still illiterate. These illiterate men are smart enough to know that you can’t survive without them, and they are absolutely right!!

And for once, if by any chance, you find the courage to fight, then you get easily convinced and manipulated if they are crying, begging and trying to suicide

Trust me, you are in this situation because you choose to stay in it like that, yes, that sounds offensive and rude but it is what it is.

I so much admire the new generation men, not boys, but men. 

They just got some good amount of sense into themselves

1. They got the gut to speak for themselves.
2. They choose the career, they like to do not the one their family choose.
3. They build muscles and eat on time.
4. Yes, they care about themselves without harming you, but they can choose themselves first, which is courageous.
5. They got the gut to tell their own loved ones, where they went wrong.
6. They are interested in news and politics, more than serials and gossips.

This is all it takes seriously. It’s everything it takes to do better in life.

• How to move out of comfort zone? (motivation prologue)
• Do you regret not having clarity?
• Do real men say ‘you’re mine’ ??
• How do you make your life better?
• Is therapy necessary?

• a cup of life
• handle bonds before they are gone
• the process of being better
• thriving through change