You know it took me a lot of time too accept that you never really love someone’s perfection you fall for their flaws. You can just like everyone’s good habit but at the end you only choose that person who’s bad habits can be tolerated by you.
You cannot tolerate anyone & everyone. Please accept that everyone has something negative to serve. You can only tolerate the person whose flaws can be adjusted and can fit well to the missing pieces of your puzzle.
It’s all about acceptance. Acceptance towards their imperfections. You can say ‘she is more understanding, working, positive/ he’s cute, calm, successful’ but dude there are millions of people with those features and you don’t fall for all of them, right?
So what you love about them is the way they might screw up and you know how to fix that. It might be the way she is over judgemental and you are good at explaining and teaching or the way she thinks that it’s never her mistakes, but you know how to let her know what went wrong. Or the way he never trusts you, and your weird habit of always explaining him everything like he is your human diary.
So for the god sake stop judging your partners neither will she nor will you really realise how much efforts are made from each ends
Infact, stop pushing people to fit into your puzzle, neither are they wrong, nor are you. Sometimes, you’ll are just not meant to be. Accept it!
Someone who's behavior you might not like can exactly be someone who would be loved by someone else for the exact same behaviour. Problem is neither of you here. Stop assuming that someone can treat other's right but not you. They are simply fitting well with someone else's puzzle and so will you. – Tanisha
