As much as this sounds horrofic, it’s the reality. How a broken relationship with a partner/friend/parent haunts you. There will always be burden of incomplete things on your shoulder.
They will always tell you that you left something behind, you are forgeting something, you had started something and that something needs your attention.
I had a broken relationship with a friend of mine, I thought it would never haunt me as such. We do talk again and so its fine. But I was mistaken. Each and every second of my life, I started to feel some incompleteness from within. For months I didnt recognize what this is. For months I never knew what was going on.
It was a sudden realisation that hit me and told me that, 'you got your mind to start something, your mind takes that as a challenge, and when you leave it, it takes so much longer for your mind to get used to it. Either then you complete it or teach your mind to accept that not all chapters end well.' I somehow found a way that worked out for me, I made a list of everything which I felt weighs me down. (it could be anything & literally anything)
Here’s a example of incomplete things in my life:
- A broken friendship with someone.
- A job of 1 year that I quit.
- The writing course I bought.
- The goal of 1million followers, which I stopped while I got my 100 followers.
- The book I started writing to publish.
- Books I started reading and didnt finish
- Series I started watching and left mid way.
- The gym subscription I took.
And there’s more to this list. Make this list for yourself. For it doesnt matter how long this list happens to be. You will be satisfied the moment you cross mark the 1st thing you completed. With time, to reach the conclusion will become like a most beautiful and growth oriented habit.
~ Tanisha
